A Step Away from Bathing with a Toaster is the first installment in David Kitzmiller’s Dealing with the Toaster series. This memoir chronicles his transformative journey as a young adult navigating addiction, depression, and the search for self-acceptance, set against the backdrop of his first trip to Australia and a nine-day cruise that would change the course of his life.
The narrative explores the vibrant energy of Sydney and the serenity of the open sea with David’s internal struggles. Moments of humor, fleeting romance, and adventure provide contrast to his deep reflections, creating a story that is both intensely personal and universally relatable.
This memoir follows the continuation of David’s story from his prequel, Born with a Toaster in the Bathroom, moving past childhood trauma and addiction into early adulthood. Through every page, he examines the consequences of past experiences and the challenges of living with them, using writing as a tool to process emotion and survival.
The book explores themes of love, loss, mental health, and the journey to find meaning in life. David’s lyrical prose, punctuated with candid humor, invites readers into moments of vulnerability, reflection, and even absurdity, demonstrating the complexity of navigating a troubled yet hopeful life.
Confronting trauma: Addiction, depression, and the aftermath of childhood wounds.
Growth through adversity: Travel, self-reflection, and the quest for personal acceptance.
Moments of humanity: Humor, fleeting romance, and the absurdity of life provide balance to the struggles.
Writing as survival: Memoir as a tool for understanding, coping, and connection with readers.
Kitzmiller’s style is emotionally unfiltered, blending narrative and introspective reflection with poetic sensibilities. His work captures the tension between pain and humor, demonstrating that even in darkness, moments of insight and light can be found.
Explore the rest of the Dealing with the Toaster series, including the prequel Born with a Toaster in the Bathroom and companion poetry collections Poems from the Toaster, to gain a fuller understanding of David Kitzmiller’s emotional and creative journey.
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“Equal parts confessional and cathartic, this book is for anyone who has ever felt like a mess on the mend. One of the most unforgettable voices in indie lit today.” — Unbound Ink Magazine, Micah Tran
“Kitzmiller has crafted a masterclass in vulnerability. He doesn't just share his story—he spills his scars across the page and dares you to feel something.” — The Literary Current, Sasha Greenfield
“An emotional gut-punch softened with wit and warmth. This is more than a memoir—it's survival poetry dressed in cruise ship chaos and heartbreak.” — LitPulse Weekly, J. DeMarco
“Brutally honest and beautifully human. Kitzmiller invites readers into the center of his story—and somehow makes it feel like home.” — The Indie Memoir Review, Harper Lane
“I read the book in one day because it kept my attention so well. I had to know what happens next.” — Amazon reviewer